Months later I met new guy. If you did that, they might come back to you because they are trying to ease the guilt they feel. I knew after so much failing it won’t work with him, also I … Told me he was unhappy, didn’t see a future and didn’t love me anymore. There are also exes who come back in order to make things right between the two of you as well as to alleviate any hard feelings. Came back in June. You are probably in a lot of pain right now, so you likely won’t believe what I’m about to say. However, 6 months later, we broke up again yesterday. But there are some … But unless you've committed some of the typical post-breakup mistakes, getting back with an ex is not dependent on you—but rather on your ex and the months and years of time. He broke up with me in March last year. I have changed my entire outlook on relationships and humans and how we work after my ex came back over 2 months ago and I ended up saying no after thinking Id always say yes. During no contact, he realised he still loved me and 3 months later, he came back. I know if I stick to NC he will come back … My ex came back. Yeah, that one, the guy who ripped your heart out and then stomped on it -- and then was adamant about how he wanted to "stay friends." Your ex might have left you because they felt like it, and knew that when they decided to come back in their own time, you would be willing to take them again. You don’t want to get back together with your ex before 4-6 months have passed anyway. For example, perhaps the two of you ended on bad terms or you were completely blindsided by the breakup, and your ex may feel compelled to come back and apologize and/or set the record straight once and for all. Few days in relationship with him and ex come back to me full of ‘love’ and asked me back. The reason for that is because dumpers need a lot of alone time to live their life the way they had envisioned. I worked on myself. Chances of hearing from your ex years later are almost as high as hearing from him or her in the first month. Getting back with an ex after years is possible. And once I realised this was how my ex-friend ‘loved’ me (oh they told me they did things for me out of ‘love’ like telling me they had thought about getting me a present, but not actually getting it, not that it would have mattered because gifts are not my language i.e. It's been over 8 months now and we are still apart. My ex broke up with me first time due to codependence. 100%… And if I’m being honest here, from my experience I’d rather be dumped then being the dumper and I’ll tell you why. 2. Quite frankly, they are 11.1%. Then he broke up in May. Twice. All the advice on this forum will help you move on. As he already left me 2 times and didn’t care about me for so many months I rejected him. 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